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The Top 5 Winning Relationship Strategies (in The New Rules of Marriage)
Expert relationship strategies to have a healthy, happy, long-lasting marriage
When couples bravely enter my office, they are hurting. They want the conflict and/or disconnection to end, and the harmony and love to return. They wish to be heard,…
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Is There Sex After Having Kids?
Is There Sex After Having Kids? How to Preserve Emotional and Physical Intimacy After Having a Child
Wisdom passed down about how to successfully transition from couplehood to parenthood is surprisingly sparse. We all hear with excitement…
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Are You in a Codependent, Avoidant, or Securely Attached Relationship?
Codependency is one of the most confused and contested words in the couples therapy field today. There could even be a debate between couples therapists and addiction counselors on whether or not codependency (and the cartoon above!) is healthy…
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Fighting Well for Both Partners to Win!
Why is fighting (hot conflict) or avoidance/emotional distance (cold conflict) scary for so many people? I think the answer can be found in the underlying fears that people rarely speak about...
the fear of being abandoned
the fear of…
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Why Love is Not Enough for a Satisfying, Long Lasting Marriage
We hear all of the time that "Love is the answer".
I used to think this too... until I had more real world experience in my own marriage and experience as a couple therapist.
I still love romance and want my spouse to love and accept me…
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