Fighting Well for Both Partners to Win!
Why is fighting (hot conflict) or avoidance/emotional distance (cold conflict) scary for so many people? I think the answer can be found in the underlying fears that people rarely speak about...
the fear of being abandoned
the fear of…
Why Love is Not Enough for a Satisfying, Long Lasting Marriage
We hear all of the time that "Love is the answer".
I used to think this too... until I had more real world experience in my own marriage and experience as a couple therapist.
I still love romance and want my spouse to love and accept me…